The next round of the roadmap begins on January 5, 2025.

Love In Limbo?

Take the Guesswork Out of Navigating Separation

Separation doesn’t come with a guidebook—but this roadmap changes that. In just 30 days, you’ll gain the skills to handle this uncertain time with clarity, confidence, and emotional strength.

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FEELING LOST AFTER YOUR PARTNER'S REQUEST FOR SPACE?

Navigate the complexities of emotional distance with The Love In Limbo 30-Day Roadmap.

You don't have to figure this out alone. Transform this uncertain time into a journey of growth and clarity—whether that leads to reconciliation or your own emotional freedom. We're here to guide you through every step.

It's 3 AM, and you're staring at the ceiling...

...replaying their words over and over: "I need space." Your mind races with questions—How much space is too much? What if space leads to goodbye? What if trying to fix things only pushes them further away?

You're trapped in relationship limbo, and it's slowly tearing you apart.

Every interaction feels like walking through a minefield. One wrong move could shatter what's left of your connection. You scroll through relationship advice, hoping to find that one magic answer that will make everything clear. But the tips and tricks only leave you more confused, more anxious, more alone.

What if there was a way to transform this uncertain time into a path for growth? What if you could navigate this delicate dance of space with confidence, knowing exactly what to do and when to do it?

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The quest for an answer to 'What do I do when my partner wants space?' ends here. Welcome to your roadmap.

Break Free from Relationship Limbo

You've tried everything:

 

  • Giving them complete freedom (but that felt like giving up)
  • Staying close (but that pushed them further away)
  • Reading endless advice articles (but they all contradict each other)
  • Talking to friends (who mean well but don't really understand)

 

And still, you're stuck in that painful space between holding on and letting go.

 

The truth? Most relationships don't end because of the space—they end because no one showed us how to use that space for growth.

This is Where Everything Changes

Imagine waking up feeling centered and clear, knowing exactly how to:

  • Navigate each day with confidence, not confusion
  • Transform separation anxiety into self-discovery
  • Communicate in ways that bridge the gap, not widen it
  • Build emotional resilience that serves you for life
  • Turn this challenging time into an opportunity for profound personal growth

Meet Your Guides

Hello! I’m Staci Bartley, joined by my husband, Tom, and our daughter, Brooke—in offering you a heartfelt invitation to our Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap. As an Integrated Couples Specialist, Divorce Mediator, and Relationship Expert, I’ve woven together our personal insights and professional experiences to create a program uniquely tailored for those navigating the complexities of needing space in relationships.

 

This journey is about embarking on a path of self-discovery and emotional resilience, all from the comfort of your own home. It’s designed to guide you through understanding the need for relationship space and transforming it into a period of personal empowerment.

 

With the 30-Day Roadmap, you’ll engage in a series of carefully crafted steps leading to a deeper connection with yourself and a clearer vision for your future. It's more than a program—it's an experience, shared with the support of a family who believes in the power of personal growth to change lives.

You're probably thinking...

How do I navigate the space my partner is asking for without making things worse? How can I work on our relationship while we're apart? And what if my partner isn’t as committed to resolving things as I am? These questions hit right at the heart of what many face in times of separation or when navigating the tricky waters of needing space. And they're exactly what we address in the Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap. 

Let me give you a clearer picture. Here’s what you’ll discover when you embark on this journey:

Mastering Emotional Regulation

Learning the power of the pause to maintain emotional neutrality in heated moments.

Navigating Manipulation

Recognizing and reframing manipulative behaviors into more authentic forms of communication.

Understanding Defense Mechanisms

Identifying personal protective behaviors and strategies for healthier responses.

Exploring Boundaries

Creating scenarios to test and strengthen personal boundaries within various contexts.

Effective Communication

Applying a no-fail formula for clear, compassionate conversations that connect hearts and minds.

Expressing Sincere Requests

Learning to articulate desires and needs within relationships without fear of rejection.

Voices of Transformation: Real Stories from the Roadmap

Hear directly from those who have journeyed through the Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap. These audio clips feature candid reflections from past participants who found themselves at a crossroads in their relationships. Discover how they navigated their deepest challenges and emerged with newfound self-awareness and emotional resilience. Each story is a testament to the transformative power of the Roadmap, offering inspiration and hope to those who are contemplating their own paths to personal growth and relationship recovery. Whether you're feeling lost, seeking clarity, or just need a spark of motivation, these voices can guide you towards making that pivotal decision to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and healing. Listen to their experiences and see how embracing the roadmap might change your life, just as it did theirs.

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What You'll Discover Inside The Roadmap:

  1. First: Chart Your Course: (Days 1-7) Break free from the paralyzing uncertainty of "what now?" Get crystal clear on where you stand and where you're headed—with or without your partner's participation.
  2. Second: Emotional Resilience:(Days 8-14) Stop letting anxiety and fear drive your actions. Learn our proven emotional regulation techniques that keep you steady, even when everything feels unstable.
  3. Third: Bridging Silence with Words: (Days 15-21) Transform awkward silences into meaningful space. Discover exactly what to say (and not say) to maintain connection without overwhelming your partner.
  4. Fourth: Creating 'Space with a Plan': (Days 22-30) Build a sustainable plan that honors both your need for connection and their need for space. This is where temporary separation becomes a catalyst for lasting growth.

Why Our Community Recommends Us

Hear from those who have walked this path before and why they passionately recommend the Love In Limbo Roadmap:

"It helped me to realize that I'm not broken. That I do have a big and beautiful heart that is worthy of love and connection. Becoming more aware and in touch with the idea of knowing me is profound for me."

ROADMAP PARTICIPANT

"My communication has improved, but I would say my biggest impact is letting go of my reactions to control my husband. I notice myself using control and manipulation and am able to stop and course correct."

ROADMAP PARTICIPANT

"It helped me come back to myself in ways that I didn’t even know I needed to. The idea of planting my flag has been huge. In fact, I had a rough day the other day and I went back to my notes and journals and reminded myself of who I am and how I want to show up."

ROADMAP PARTICIPANT

"I was able to recognize thinking errors on my own. And then forgive myself for not seeing them sooner. I really feel like I found a piece of me I didn't know I could and saved her. I know that's short and sweet, but it's already having a profound effect on my life."

ROADMAP PARTICIPANT

What Story Will You Tell?

Months from now, you'll look back on this moment. Will it be the story of how you stayed stuck in limbo, letting uncertainty chip away at your confidence? Or will it be the story of how you took control of your journey, transformed yourself, and either rebuilt your relationship or emerged stronger on your own?

 

The next chapter starts now.

Frequently Asked Questions

No, you don’t need to be offically separated to find value in the Roadmap. Emotional space and separation can occur while living under the same roof, and this program is specifically designed for those experiencing or contemplating physical or emotional distance in their relationship. If you’re feeling disconnected, questioning your identity within your relationship, or have noticed that the dynamics have changed you in ways you didn’t anticipate, the Roadmap is an invaluable resource. It aims to help you reconnect with yourself and provides essential skills for navigating your current and future relationship challenges effectively.

No, some journeys are best undertaken alone. The Roadmap is designed as a personal journey back to oneself. For it to be truly effective, each participant needs to experience their own emotional space and safety. If you're looking to engage in relationship work together, The Better Love Club is an excellent alternative. Many couples choose to combine both resources: while one person engages in the Roadmap, the other joins The Better Love Club. Later, they switch roles, allowing both partners to benefit from individual and shared growth experiences.

The Roadmap requires no formal prerequisites other than an openness to deeply explore personal emotions and relationship dynamics. This experience is different from typical courses; it’s an interactive journey that requires your active participation. Being open, honest, and vulnerable with yourself and within your community maximizes the transformative impact of the program.

  • Lack of Interest in Self-Exploration: The 30-day Roadmap is centered around deep self-exploration. It guides you through understanding who you are, how you connect with others, and the root of your relationship challenges. If you are not looking to engage in this level of introspection, this program may not align with your needs.

  • Discomfort with Vulnerability: This journey requires a willingness to be vulnerable and to look deeply into your emotional and behavioral patterns. If opening up in this way is challenging for you, you might want to consider starting with the Better Love Club to ease into self-discovery.

  • Contentment with Current Relationships: If you feel fully satisfied with your relationships and do not feel the need for personal or relational growth, the Roadmap may not provide additional value. This program is specifically designed for those who are seeking transformation and deeper connection.

  • Expectation of a Passive Experience: The 30-day Roadmap is an interactive and experiential journey that demands active participation for maximum benefit. It is not suitable for those who prefer a more passive learning experience, such as simply watching videos without engaging in the exercises and community discussions. The more effort you invest, the greater the rewards.

Expect to dedicate about 45 minutes to an hour daily to the Roadmap, roughly the time you might spend watching an episode of your favorite TV show or attending a fitness class. This daily commitment is designed to be both immersive and manageable, ensuring that you can integrate this valuable work into your everyday life without overwhelming your schedule.

The Love In Limbo 30-Day Roadmap is unique in offering daily access to Staci and her team for a full month, providing unparalleled support and guidance. This program is specifically tailored to help individuals navigate and heal from emotional distress in the most effective manner, offering tools and strategies unique to this intensive support system.

Yes, the 30-day Roadmap is especially beneficial if you are currently not in contact with your partner. The program focuses on helping you find your personal bearings and understand your own needs and desires. This foundation will prepare you to navigate your relationship's future more effectively. Additionally, the Roadmap provides guidance and support to help you craft a thoughtful approach to reconnecting with your partner, should you choose to do so. This plan can be an invitation to re-engage when you are ready.

Yes, one of the core outcomes of the Roadmap is developing a personalized plan to navigate through periods of separation or uncertainty. Whether the plan is for individual use or to be shared with a partner, you will receive guidance on the best approaches to initiate and sustain constructive dialogues.

While there are no guarantees, the Love In Limbo Roadmap can significantly enhance your relationship by focusing on personal growth first. The program helps you understand and address your own needs and emotions, which is a crucial step before attempting to resolve relationship issues. By discovering where you stand and what you need, you lay the groundwork for healthier interactions and potential reconciliation.

The most empowering aspect of the Love In Limbo Roadmap is that it focuses on the one person you truly have the power to change: yourself. By deepening your understanding of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and by enhancing your relationship skills, you initiate personal changes that can profoundly impact your interactions and dynamics with others. This self-transformation is not only a gift to yourself but can also positively influence your partner and the overall health of your relationship.

So, What Exactly is the Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap?

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When you embark on the Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap, you're not just signing up for another program. You're enrolling in a transformative journey that holds your hand through each day of space and separation, providing clarity and actionable steps towards a stronger, more connected partnership.

Guided Practices for Self-Discovery and Emotional Resilience

Guided Meditations and Activities: Immerse yourself in meticulously crafted meditations and activities. Each one presents a new opportunity for self-reflection, growth, and emotional grounding. From the art of self-regulation to the deep dive into your emotional landscape, these practices are designed to foster a profound understanding of yourself and your place within your relationship.

A Secure, Supportive Community

Peer Support and Shared Growth: Enter a private community where every member has signed a confidentiality agreement, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for all. This is a place where you can share freely and learn from others who are facing similar challenges. The power of shared experiences and the comfort of knowing you're not alone can be incredibly healing and empowering.

Live Coaching Calls: A Guiding Light

Interactive Sessions: Gain direct access to Staci, Tom, & Brooke through six live (and recorded, for those who can't attend live) coaching calls. These sessions are your opportunity to dive deeper, seek personalized advice, and interact with your guides and fellow travelers. It's here, in these gatherings, that many find breakthroughs and moments of profound clarity.

Plus: Bonus Resources for Continued Exploration

An Extensive Library of Additional Insights: Beyond the daily practices and live sessions, gain access to a treasure trove of bonus resources. These additional materials offer extended learning, providing you with more tools, strategies, and perspectives to enrich your journey.

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Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap

Your Crossroads Moment

Every day you spend in relationship limbo is another day of:

  • Questioning every interaction
  • Losing sleep over "what-ifs"
  • Watching your confidence erode
  • Feeling the distance grow wider

Or it could be your first day of finally having a clear path forward.

Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap

Transform Your Relationship Space Into a Pathway for Growth and Reconnection

$397

Beginning January 5, 2025

(Payment plans available.)

Secure your spot in the Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap and gain access to:

  • Expert Insights for Relationship Healing: Turn relationship challenges into growth opportunities. Their guidance lights your way back to connection.
  • Daily Growth Activities: Dive into daily tasks designed for your personal and relational development, each guiding you closer to reconciliation.
  • Community Support: Find solace and strength in a community of peers facing similar challenges. Share, support, and grow together towards unity.
  • Daily Reflections: Use daily check-ins to track and share your journey, a key element in understanding and bridging the emotional gap.
  • Live Coaching Sessions: Offering personalized support and fostering a strong sense of belonging and shared purpose among participants.
    • Sunday, January 5th 1 p.m. PT (Kickoff Call)
    • Thursday, January 9th @ 5:30 p.m. PT
    • Wednesday, January 15th @ 1:00 p.m. PT
    • Thursday, January 23rd @ 5:30 p.m. PT
    • Wednesday, January 29th @ 1:00 p.m. PT
    • Thursday, February 6th @ 5:30 p.m. PT (Graduation)

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