Love In Limbo?
They said they needed space. No one told you how to survive it.
This is the kind of pain that doesn't look dramatic from the outside, but inside, it's all you think about. You're doing your best. But now... you're not sure who you are without their daily presence. This isn't about being weak. It's about being human in the hardest kind of waiting game.
Space was supposed to give you clarity. All it’s given you is heartache.
You keep searching for the “right” thing to do, but everything feels like too much, or not enough.
You’ve read the articles. You’ve given them what they asked for.
You’ve held your breath, hoping they’ll come back with answers.
And in the meantime?
- You’re obsessing over every message you send, or don’t send.
- You’re watching them move through life like they’re fine, while you’re unraveling quietly in Target.
- You’re trying to act chill… but your chest tightens every time your phone buzzes.
You’ve spent hours learning more than you ever wanted to know about relationships, trauma, attachment, self-regulation, grief, and boundaries.
All you really want is:
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To feel like you again, even in the middle of this
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To understand what’s happening, instead of feeling crazy.
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A plan that lets you stay present without losing yourself in the waiting.
Imagine waking up with a roadmap that calms your spiraling thoughts, and reminds you that you’re not powerless in this story.
You don’t want to just survive the space.
You’re not just waiting for them to “come around.” You’re learning how to come home to yourself.
Imagine waking up with more clarity than chaos. More strength than spirals. More peace in your chest, no matter what the day brings.
That version of you?
You’re not begging. You’re not guessing. You’re not unraveling every time a text goes unanswered.
Instead, you:
- Know what you need, and how to honor it.
- Show up grounded in conversations that used to leave you shaking.
- Use tools that help you stay calm, compassionate, and clear, even when things feel messy.
- Trust yourself, even when the path isn’t perfectly mapped.
Because deep down, what you really want… is to feel like you’re becoming someone you’re proud of.
What Our Participants Are Saying
Real Stories of Transformation and Hope
Navigating a relationship when your partner asks for space can feel overwhelming. But you’re not alone. Here’s how the 30-Day Roadmap has empowered individuals to reclaim their confidence, clarity, and peace of mind:
You're Not Crazy. You're Experiencing A Trauma Response.
There’s a neurological reason why this hurts so much, and why it’s so hard to think straight.
Because relational limbo, when someone you love suddenly creates distance, activates the same part of your brain as physical pain.
MRI studies show that romantic rejection and separation light up the anterior cingulate cortex, the region responsible for processing physical distress.
So when you’re obsessing, panicking, or spiraling? It’s not weakness.
It’s your nervous system doing its job… it just doesn’t know how to turn off.
The good news? There are specific, evidence-backed ways to calm it, ways we practice daily in the Roadmap.
This isn’t about “moving on.”
It’s about stabilizing your system so you can come home to yourself.
Introducing The Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap
A guided, trauma-informed journey for the partner stuck in relationship limbo. If someone you love has created distance or pulled away, this is your steady hand back to clarity, courage, and emotional strength.
This isn’t just about surviving space, it’s about learning how to show up for your life again. Inside The Love in Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap, you’ll build real-world relationship skills and reclaim your inner compass, alongside a private community of people who deeply get it.
✨ What You’ll Walk Away With
- 🌀 A sense of emotional steadiness, so you can navigate the unknown without spinning out every time your partner pulls away
- 🛠 A toolset for regulating, reflecting, and responding with clarity (not reacting from fear or old patterns)
- 🔍 A sharper lens for what’s really happening in your dynamic, and what’s not yours to fix or carry anymore
- 💬 Clear boundaries and compassionate scripts that help you communicate with honesty, not heat
- 🗺 A 30-day framework you can return to anytime your relationship feels uncertain, plus a sisterhood of others walking the same brave road
🌪️ Week 1: Calm the Chaos: Emotional Regulation
You don’t need to fix the relationship this week. You need to find you again.
We’ll help you stop spiraling and start breathing. You’ll learn how to name what’s happening (inside you, not just around you), and build simple, body-based rituals that bring you back to yourself, without needing your partner to come with you.
🔹 Self-reflection journaling to untangle what just happened
🔹 Your “Anchor List” of go-to tools for when panic flares
🔹 The real reason heartbreak feels like danger, and how to soothe your system when it hits
💪 Week 2: Build Resilience: Regain Confidence
You’re not broken. You’re patterned, and you can rewrite the script.
This week, we’ll help you spot the survival strategies you’ve outgrown (like over-explaining, waiting for crumbs, or pretending you’re fine), and replace them with emotional strength you can actually feel. You’ll get tools to handle uncertainty without defaulting to self-blame or anxious action.
🔹 Emotional “weightlifting” to handle silence without collapse
🔹 Tools like the “Emotion Flip Challenge” to turn spirals into insight
🔹 Gentle unpacking of the deeper story this heartbreak is poking at
🗣️ Week 3: Communicate with Clarity: Lead with Self-Respect
You don’t need to convince them. You need to be clear with you.
This week is where words meet wisdom. You’ll learn how to navigate hard conversations (or respectful silence) with confidence, without chasing, fixing, or explaining yourself into exhaustion. You’ll craft language that reflects your truth, not your triggers.
🔹 Your “Emotional Safety Blueprint” for calm, conscious connection
🔹 Learn the difference between reaching out and reaching for
🔹 Practice boundaries that feel like self-love, not just self-protection
📓 Week 4: Plan Your Next Steps: With or Without Them
This isn’t about making the “right” choice. It’s about making your choice.
By Week 4, the fog has started to clear. Now it’s time to chart a course, whether that means reconnection, separation, or standing still with a lot more strength. You’ll create a plan that honors your needs, your vision, and your right to stop performing for love.
🔹 Design your “Love Lease” or personalized separation agreement
🔹 Craft a future vision that centers your truth, not your fear
🔹 Rituals and reflection prompts to close this chapter with clarity and courage
Real People. Real Turning Points. Stories from the Roadmap
You’ve already been paying for this, in sleepless nights, spiraling thoughts, and a thousand unanswered questions.
Meet Your Guides
Hey there, we’re Staci, Tom, and Brooke. A real-life family that’s walked this road too.
We created the Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap because we know what it’s like to be stuck in that confusing, painful place of not knowing where your relationship stands, or what the hell to do about it. I’m Staci, an Integrated Couples Specialist, Divorce Mediator, and longtime relationship coach. Alongside my husband Tom and our daughter Brooke, we’ve combined decades of lived and professional experience to offer you something rare: support that’s practical and deeply personal.
This isn’t therapy. It’s not fluff. It’s a map for getting back to yourself, even in the mess.
Over the course of 30 days, we’ll guide you through proven tools and weekly practices that bring clarity to your emotions, courage to your conversations, and a little peace to your heart (yes, even when the other person isn’t showing up how you’d like). It’s self-discovery with a side of truth-telling and community care, all from the comfort of your couch.
We’re here not just as professionals, but as people who get it. And we’re honored to walk beside you.
What You'll Discover Inside The Roadmap:
- First: Chart Your Course: (Days 1-7) Break free from the paralyzing uncertainty of "what now?" Get crystal clear on where you stand and where you're headed—with or without your partner's participation.
- Second: Emotional Resilience: (Days 8-14) Stop letting anxiety and fear drive your actions. Learn our proven emotional regulation techniques that keep you steady, even when everything feels unstable.
- Third: Bridging Silence with Words: (Days 15-21) Transform awkward silences into meaningful space. Discover exactly what to say (and not say) to maintain connection without overwhelming your partner.
- Fourth: Creating 'Space with a Plan': (Days 22-30) Build a sustainable plan that honors both your need for connection and their need for space. This is where temporary separation becomes a catalyst for lasting growth.
Frequently Asked Questions
No, you don’t need to be offically separated to find value in the Roadmap. Emotional space and separation can occur while living under the same roof, and this program is specifically designed for those experiencing or contemplating physical or emotional distance in their relationship. If you’re feeling disconnected, questioning your identity within your relationship, or have noticed that the dynamics have changed you in ways you didn’t anticipate, the Roadmap is an invaluable resource. It aims to help you reconnect with yourself and provides essential skills for navigating your current and future relationship challenges effectively.
No, some journeys are best undertaken alone. The Roadmap is designed as a personal journey back to oneself. For it to be truly effective, each participant needs to experience their own emotional space and safety. If you're looking to engage in relationship work together, The Better Love Club is an excellent alternative. Many couples choose to combine both resources: while one person engages in the Roadmap, the other joins The Better Love Club. Later, they switch roles, allowing both partners to benefit from individual and shared growth experiences.
The Roadmap requires no formal prerequisites other than an openness to deeply explore personal emotions and relationship dynamics. This experience is different from typical courses; it’s an interactive journey that requires your active participation. Being open, honest, and vulnerable with yourself and within your community maximizes the transformative impact of the program.
Expect to dedicate about 45 minutes to an hour daily to the Roadmap, roughly the time you might spend watching an episode of your favorite TV show or attending a fitness class. This daily commitment is designed to be both immersive and manageable, ensuring that you can integrate this valuable work into your everyday life without overwhelming your schedule.
The Love In Limbo 30-Day Roadmap is unique in offering daily access to Staci and her team for a full month, providing unparalleled support and guidance. This program is specifically tailored to help individuals navigate and heal from emotional distress in the most effective manner, offering tools and strategies unique to this intensive support system.
Yes, the 30-day Roadmap is especially beneficial if you are currently not in contact with your partner. The program focuses on helping you find your personal bearings and understand your own needs and desires. This foundation will prepare you to navigate your relationship's future more effectively. Additionally, the Roadmap provides guidance and support to help you craft a thoughtful approach to reconnecting with your partner, should you choose to do so. This plan can be an invitation to re-engage when you are ready.
Yes, one of the core outcomes of the Roadmap is developing a personalized plan to navigate through periods of separation or uncertainty. Whether the plan is for individual use or to be shared with a partner, you will receive guidance on the best approaches to initiate and sustain constructive dialogues.
While there are no guarantees, the Love In Limbo Roadmap can significantly enhance your relationship by focusing on personal growth first. The program helps you understand and address your own needs and emotions, which is a crucial step before attempting to resolve relationship issues. By discovering where you stand and what you need, you lay the groundwork for healthier interactions and potential reconciliation.
The most empowering aspect of the Love In Limbo Roadmap is that it focuses on the one person you truly have the power to change: yourself. By deepening your understanding of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and by enhancing your relationship skills, you initiate personal changes that can profoundly impact your interactions and dynamics with others. This self-transformation is not only a gift to yourself but can also positively influence your partner and the overall health of your relationship.
Your Investment in the Roadmap? Less Than Another Month in Limbo.
You’re not just buying information, you’re getting a 30-day plan to get your footing back and a space full of people who actually get it. Here’s everything that’s inside.
Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap
Transform Your Relationship Space Into a Pathway for Growth and Reconnection
$397
Enrollment closes August 14, 2025
(Payment plans available.)
This isn’t just a course. It’s a lifeline. A full-spectrum system of support to help you feel steadier, braver, and clearer, no matter what happens next.
🔷 🌀 The 30-Day Roadmap Program
Daily guidance, reflective prompts, and proven tools to help you stay steady while navigating space, separation, or relationship crisis.
(Value: $497)
🔷 👥 Live Group Coaching Calls
Personalized support and a powerful sense of shared purpose. These group calls bring it all home. Ask questions, feel seen, and be held.
✔ Kickoff Call: Sunday Aug 10 @ 1:00 p.m. PT
✔ Aug 14 @ 5:30 p.m. PT
✔ Aug 20 @ 1:00 p.m. PT
✔ Aug 28 @ 5:30 p.m. PT
✔ Sept 3 @ 1:00 p.m. PT
✔ Graduation: Sept 11 @ 5:30 p.m. PT
(Value: $600)
🔷 🌍 Private Community of Brave, Brilliant Humans
An off-social, confidential space where you’re supported by people who actually get it. Everyone inside has signed a confidentiality agreement, and many have walked this path before you.
(Value: $199)
🔷 🧭 Support from Roadmap Mentors
Past participants who’ve come out the other side, and stayed, to offer wisdom, perspective, and that kind of fierce encouragement only someone who’s been there can give.
(Value: $150)
🔷 💬 Ongoing Support Options
You’ll have access to a range of ways to be supported:
• A discussion board that feels more like a group text with soul
• Comments on daily check-in posts
• Private DMs with fellow Roadmappers
• Private DMs with Staci, Tom, or Brooke if you need a lifeline
(Value: $250)
🔷 🎁 Instant Access Bonus Resource Library
As soon as you join, you’ll unlock:
• Enlightening videos to help you ground and prepare
• Soothing audio practices to calm and center
• Healthy coping tools and interactive worksheets
• Journaling prompts for self-awareness
• Full 30-Day Audio Challenge to warm you up
(Value: $179)
💰 Total Value: $1,875+
👉 Your Investment: $397
or 3 monthly payments of $145
🌀 Choose you. Choose peace.
Start the Roadmap today and take the first brave step toward clarity, connection, or closure, on your terms.
