#165: Feeling Alone Together: How Unspoken Expectations Are Speaking Volumes in Your Relationship


Are you waking up each day, feeling like you're walking on eggshells, sharing a home but not a life with your partner? The reality for many of us is a relationship filled with daily conflicts and a growing emotional gap, where silent expectations and unvoiced agreements cast a shadow over our once vibrant connection.


Welcome to Love Shack Live, a beacon of hope for those at a relationship crossroads, craving a connection that feels true and heartfelt. I'm Stacey Bartley, joined by my co-host and lover, Tom, and our insightful daughter, Brooke. Together, we delve into the essence of relationships, guiding you from the shadows of the unsaid to a bond built on mutual understanding and deep intimacy. But how do we bridge the gap when silent forces, nestled close to our hearts, shape our relationships in ways we can't see?

Unlock Deeper Connection: Explore Your Unspoken Agreements

A Guide to Emotional Safety and Understanding in Your Relationship

In this transformative episode, we unfold layers of unspoken agreements, exploring the delicate dance of expectations that silently govern our interactions. We dive into the heart of emotional safety, revealing how to craft a sanctuary where hearts are open, and communication flows freely. It's time to transform the silence that separates into dialogues that unite, showcasing the strength of empathy and understanding.


What if the key to reuniting the love that first brought you together was not in finding new ways to communicate but in uncovering and addressing the silent agreements that have been guiding your relationship all along?


Today, inspired by a roadmap member's journey, we navigate the silent corridors of love and expectation, illuminating the path to a relationship enriched with laughter, love, and the profound comfort of truly knowing and being known by your partner. Join us as we traverse these uncharted territories, shining a light on the silent agreements that could be the key to unlocking a deeper connection with your loved one.

Links mentioned in show:


  1. Need support? Join our Love In Limbo: Separation Support Sessions. Learn more here: http://loveinlimbo.com/
  2. Relationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today!
  3. Check out our Love Shack Live Playlist for all the songs we play on the show.