What if you could stop spiraling over your partner’s actions and finally feel grounded and in control? Well, you can… read on to see how!
INTRODUCING
Love in Limbo: Your 30-Day Plan to Navigate Space & Uncertainty
Sleepless nights, obsessive overthinking & emotional chaos don’t have to be your reality.
This step-by-step roadmap gives you:
- Daily guidance to stop second-guessing every move.
- Emotional tools to calm your mind and regain confidence.
- A proven plan to navigate space without losing yourself.
If you’re thinking, “I just want to stop obsessing and feel like myself again…” this roadmap was made for you.
Let’s face the facts:
When your partner asks for space, your world feels like it’s falling apart. But the #1 way to stop spiraling and find clarity isn’t waiting on them, it’s focusing on YOU.
Shifting your focus inward instead of obsessing over their every move is the key to breaking free from emotional turmoil and reclaiming your confidence, peace, and sense of self.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, here’s why:
This isn’t just about saving your relationship, it’s about saving YOU. When you shift your focus to what’s in your control, you stop feeling powerless. And that’s when you start getting stronger.
And the best part? By following this roadmap, you’ll be in the best position to reconnect with your partner, without losing yourself in the process.
No more walking on eggshells. No more second-guessing. Just clarity, confidence, and the strength to handle whatever comes next.
Why You’re Stuck Right Now:
Your partner asked for space, and suddenly, everything feels uncertain.
You likely didn’t see this coming, and now you’re searching for answers, trying to decode their every move, constantly on edge, and replaying conversations in your head, hoping for a clue.
You’ve tried everything, giving them space, being extra patient, avoiding conflict, but nothing is working.
And it’s exhausting. Overwhelming. It feels like your entire future depends on what they decide, leaving you stuck in a cycle of overthinking, waiting, and second-guessing.
The good news? You don’t have to stay in limbo.
There’s a Clear Path Forward.
The Key Elements That Make the Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap a Game-Changer
The Relationship Skills No One Ever Taught You
Love alone isn’t enough, lasting connection comes from skills no one teaches us.
✔️ Emotional Weightlifting – Strengthen your ability to handle emotional pain without falling apart.
✔️ The Power of the Pause – Stop knee-jerk reactions and make intentional, empowered choices.
✔️ Boundary Mastery – Learn how to set and uphold boundaries without fear of losing your partner.
✔️ Self-Focus & Clarity – Shift from worrying about them to focusing on YOU, so you feel strong, secure, and in control of your future.
The Emotional Regulation Framework
This roadmap teaches you how to regulate your emotions so you stop reacting from fear, desperation, or anxiety. Instead, you’ll learn to pause, reflect, and respond in a way that keeps your dignity intact, while also fostering connection with your partner.
✔️ No more sleepless nights spent overanalyzing texts.
✔️ No more emotional rollercoasters, finally feel calm and in control again.
✔️ No more feeling like you’re losing yourself trying to “fix” things.
The Self-Focus Shift
Right now, it probably feels like your entire world revolves around what your partner does or doesn’t do. But what if the real key wasn’t about them at all, but about YOU?
This roadmap helps you shift your attention inward, so you stop obsessing over your partner and start reconnecting with yourself.
✔️ Regain a sense of control over your emotions and actions.
✔️ Rebuild your self-worth, no longer feeling dependent on their validation.
✔️ Start making choices that feel good to YOU, instead of waiting for their next move.
A Day in the Life of a Roadmapper
Morning. I wake up with that familiar knot in my stomach, the one that’s been there ever since my partner asked for space. My mind instantly starts spinning. What does this mean? What if they never come back? What do I even do today?
I almost reach for my phone to check for a text. But then I remember, I have the Roadmap. I don’t have to sit in this spiral.
I open today’s practice and press play on the guided meditation. Just breathe. The voice in my headphones is calm, steady, reassuring. For the first time this morning, my shoulders relax. My breath slows. Okay. I can do this.
Each day in the Roadmap gives me something small but powerful. A simple practice to help me focus on what I can control. A small action step to ground me in the present. And a community that reminds me, I am not alone in this.
Want to experience it for yourself?
🌀 I Interrupt the Spiral
I don’t have to get lost in overthinking or obsessing over what my partner is doing. Each day, the Roadmap helps me pause, breathe, and reclaim my sense of self.
✍️ I Have a Guided Practice
I don’t have to figure it all out on my own. I open my Roadmap, and there it is, a simple exercise that shifts my focus away from my partner and back to what I can control.
🌿 I Make Space for Peace
Instead of getting lost in anxious thoughts, I create space for self-reflection, growth, and emotional resilience.
Press play below to feel the calm for yourself.
(Press play and see for yourself, this is just a small preview of the daily moments of peace waiting for you inside the Roadmap.)
I Take One Small, Doable Step 📌
There’s no overwhelming to-do list. Just one simple action that makes me feel more grounded and in control today.
I’m Not Alone in This 🤝
I check in with the Roadmap community and read a post from someone who truly understands what I’m going through. No judgment. No pressure. Just support.
I’m Building Skills That Last 🔑
This isn’t just about getting through today. The tools I learn here will help me navigate my relationships with confidence, no matter what happens next.
Now It’s Your Turn.
This is what it feels like to be inside the Roadmap.
This is the kind of support waiting for you right now.
💛 Want to wake up tomorrow with a plan that actually helps?
Imagine How It Will Feel…
TO GO FROM THIS:
TO THIS:
If that sounds like the shift you need, take the first step toward clarity, confidence, and emotional strength today with The Love In Limbo: Self-Guided 30-Day Roadmap.
IT’S TIME TO DISCOVER…
The Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap
The step-by-step roadmap to help you regain emotional stability, stop obsessing over your partner’s every move, and confidently navigate this time, without making the common mistakes that push them further away.
This isn’t about waiting in agony, guessing your way through, or feeling powerless. It’s about building the emotional and relationship skills that will allow you to handle this situation, and any future relationship challenge, with strength, clarity, and confidence.
Say goodbye to the endless overthinking, emotional rollercoasters, and feeling stuck in limbo, and say hello to a clear plan, emotional resilience, and the ability to move forward with confidence, no matter what happens next.
Choose Your Roadmap Experience: Standard or Extra Support
The Love in Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap is designed to guide you through this difficult time with clarity and support. Now, you have two ways to go through the roadmap.
🚀 Which path is right for you? Choose below:
Option 1: Standard 30-Day Roadmap
Get everything you need to move through separation with daily support.
- ✔️ Daily Video & Audio Guidance – Get step-by-step support every day for 30 days.
- ✔️ Proven Daily Exercises – Reflect and take action with clear exercises designed to help you process emotions and find clarity.
- ✔️ Emotional & Mindset Shifts – Learn how to stop obsessing over your partner and start focusing on yourself.
- ✔️ Communication Strategies – Get guidance on what to say (and what not to say) during this time.
- ✔️ Private & Self-Paced – Go through the roadmap at your own pace and on your own schedule.
Option 2: 30-Day Roadmap + Extra Support (BLC Add-On)
Get the full roadmap PLUS community support and direct coaching.
- ✔️ Everything in the Standard Roadmap – Full access to daily lessons, exercises, and tools.
- ✔️ Access to The Better Love Club (BLC) – A private community where you can connect with others on the same journey.
- ✔️ Monday Night Coaching Calls – Join live weekly coaching calls with past Roadmap members and other BLC members experiencing space and separation. Ask questions, get advice, and feel supported in real-time.
- ✔️ Ask Questions Anytime – Get direct feedback in the BLC community (instead of overthinking alone).
- ✔️ Ongoing Support Beyond 30 Days – Stay connected and continue growing beyond the roadmap.
Want More Support While Navigating This?
Real support. Real connection. Real transformation.
👉 Join The Better Love Club for Weekly Coaching & Community Support.
The Better Love Club (BLC) isn’t just a support group, it’s a space where real transformation happens. This is where you can get your questions answered in real-time, connect with others going through the same experience, and receive live coaching from Staci & Tom Bartley.
- Live Monday Night Coaching Calls – Join Staci and her husband and business partner Tom, and a group of past roadmap members + others navigating space & separation. Ask your questions, get direct coaching, and gain clarity in real-time.
- Private Community – No more spiraling alone. Get support from people who truly get it.
- Ask Questions Anytime – Get personalized guidance instead of overthinking on your own.
- Continued Support Beyond 30 Days – Stay connected and keep growing.
Step Inside a Monday Night Coaching Session with Staci
Inside the full Monday Night Coaching Calls, you’ll get direct support from Staci, have the opportunity to ask your questions, and connect with others who truly understand what you’re going through.
What’s Inside The Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap?
Week 1: Choose Yourself First
Find your footing when everything feels uncertain.
Your world has just been turned upside down. You’re searching for answers, replaying conversations, trying to decode every little sign, desperate for something to hold onto. But the harder you try to make sense of it, the more lost you feel.
This week, you’ll take the first step toward peace by shifting the focus back to you. Instead of waiting for clarity to come from your partner, you’ll start finding it within yourself.
What You’ll Learn:
- ✔️ How to stop spiraling in overthinking and reclaim your emotional balance.
- ✔️ Why choosing yourself isn’t giving up, it’s the strongest thing you can do right now.
- ✔️ A simple daily practice to help you feel steadier, even when everything feels like it’s falling apart.
📄 Includes: Gentle self-reflection prompts + guided exercises to help you regain control and breathe easier.
Week 2: Emotional Weightlifting
Strengthen your emotional resilience so you can handle this without breaking.
Right now, your emotions feel like a rollercoaster, one moment you’re hopeful, the next, you’re devastated. Maybe you feel like you’re holding on for dear life, trying to keep it all together. But the truth is, you don’t have to keep riding this wave of uncertainty. You can step off.
This week, you’ll learn how to sit with your emotions without letting them drown you. You’ll build emotional strength, not by numbing yourself or pretending everything is fine, but by learning how to hold steady through the ups and downs.
What You’ll Learn:
- ✔️ How to manage overwhelming emotions without shutting down or lashing out.
- ✔️ The Power of the Pause: how to create space between what you feel and how you respond.
- ✔️ Practical tools to help you feel stronger, even on the hardest days.
📄 Includes: Guided emotional regulation exercises + a workbook to track your progress.
WEEK 3: SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY
Find your voice and set boundaries without feeling guilty.
You replay conversations in your head, overanalyze every text, and hold back what you really want to say, because what if it makes things worse? What if you push them further away? But staying silent doesn’t bring you closer. It only makes you feel invisible.
This week is about helping you find your voice again. You’ll learn how to communicate in a way that feels clear, confident, and true to you, without fear of saying the wrong thing.
What You’ll Learn:
- ✔️ How to express yourself in a way that fosters connection, not distance.
- ✔️ The secret to setting boundaries with confidence, without guilt, fear, or second-guessing.
- ✔️ How to stop avoiding tough conversations and say what you need to say, clearly and calmly.
📄 Includes: Word-for-word scripts, guided exercises, and real-life examples to help you speak with clarity and self-respect.
Week 4: A Plan for Growth
No more waiting. No more second-guessing. It’s time to explore what’s possible... together.
Right now, it might feel like your future is uncertain, as if everything hinges on what your partner decides. But the truth is, this isn’t just about them, it’s about both of you and the path you create moving forward.
You deserve clarity and steadiness as you navigate what comes next, whether your partner returns or not. And this week, you’ll have the opportunity to shape a way forward that feels right for you, built on mutual understanding and your own inner confidence.
You are not powerless. You are not stuck. This journey isn’t about waiting, it’s about stepping into the possibilities that lie ahead, together or apart.
What You’ll Learn:
- ✔️ The difference between commitments and agreements (and why understanding this will change how you approach relationships forever).
- ✔️ How to have open, honest conversations about what you both need, without fear or pressure.
- ✔️ How to make empowered decisions about your future, without waiting, without second-guessing, and without losing yourself in the process.
📄 Includes: A guided framework to create a personalized action plan for your relationship.
See How The Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap Has Transformed Lives
“When my wife asked for space during our first couples therapy session, I was blindsided. I felt alone and unsure of how to proceed. Finding the 30-Day Roadmap was a turning point. Through Staci’s guidance, I learned how to better understand myself, regulate my emotions, and show up in my relationship with calm and clarity. This journey didn’t just save me from spiraling, it gave me time to work on myself and our relationship. It has been life-changing, helping me regain my footing during such a fragile and uncertain time.”
— M. Johnson
“The 30-Day Roadmap became my guiding light during one of the most challenging times of my life. I was paralyzed by anxiety and overwhelmed by the fear of what was happening. This program gave me the tools to process my emotions, reframe my perspective, and build a newfound strength and confidence in myself. What felt like an insurmountable challenge became manageable. I learned to embrace change rather than fear it, discovering a sense of control and clarity I never thought possible. Today, I feel empowered, ready to move forward with my life, and deeply grateful for the peace Staci, Tom, and Brooke helped me find.”
— Marc B.
✨ This transformation is possible for you, too. Are you ready to take back control of your emotions, regain your confidence, and navigate this time with clarity?
So That Means You Get...
GET ALL OF THIS FOR JUST $199.
(Or choose two payments of $115.)
Roadmap + Extra Support (BLC Add-On)
Get everything above PLUS:
- Private community support in The Better Love Club
- Live Monday Night Coaching Calls with Staci + past roadmap members & others navigating space/separation
- Ask questions anytime (instead of overthinking alone)
- Ongoing support beyond 30 days
💡 Get the clarity, connection, and guidance you need to move forward with confidence.
Meet Your Guide: Staci Bartley
Hi, I’m Staci Bartley, a relationship mentor and Divorce Mediator with over a decade of experience helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional uncertainty of love and separation. My approach offers an alternative to traditional therapy, focusing on practical, real-world relationship skills that help you regulate emotions, communicate effectively, set boundaries, and make empowered decisions, no matter what happens next.
After working with thousands of individuals who felt stuck in limbo, overanalyzing, waiting, and unsure how to move forward, I saw a need for a structured, step-by-step approach to navigating this challenging time. That’s why I created Love In Limbo: The 30-Day Roadmap, a guided process that helps you rebuild confidence, process emotions effectively, and move through this experience with clarity and strength.
I believe that healthy relationships aren’t just about love, they require skills. Skills that most of us were never taught, like how to navigate uncertainty, manage emotional triggers, and communicate our needs in a way that fosters connection instead of conflict. No matter where you are in your journey, these skills will serve you, not just in this relationship, but in every relationship moving forward.
I’d love to walk this journey with you inside Love In Limbo and help you find clarity, healing, and emotional freedom, on your terms. ❤️
See How This Roadmap Has Changed Lives
You don’t need to just take my word for it, here’s what others have experienced after working with these tools and strategies.
HAPPINESS GUARANTEE – JOIN RISK-FREE!
I know that making an investment in yourself, especially during such an uncertain time, can feel overwhelming. That’s why The Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap comes with a 7-day Happiness Guarantee.
If you’re worried that this won’t work for you, or if you’re skeptical about whether this roadmap can really help, I want to take that fear off your plate.
Try the program for 7 days, go through the materials, start practicing the tools, and see how it feels. If you don’t feel a shift within the first week, just send me an email and I’ll refund you. No hoops, no hassle.
Why? Because I know the skills inside this program have helped hundreds of people navigate this exact situation with more clarity, confidence, and peace. And I believe they will help you, too.
You have nothing to lose, except the anxiety and uncertainty that’s been weighing you down.
Are you ready to take that first step?
For Anyone Navigating Space or Separation: Privately & on Your Own Terms
When your partner asks for space, or when separation becomes a reality, it can feel like the ground has been pulled out from under you. Who do you turn to? What should you do next? How do you even begin to make sense of it all?
Maybe the idea of therapy feels overwhelming right now. Maybe you don’t feel ready to share what you’re going through with friends or family.
That’s okay.
You don’t have to share your story unless you want to. The Roadmap is here to support you privately, at your own pace, with no pressure or expectations.
This is your space to process, reflect, and take action, on your own terms.
You don’t have to figure this out alone. But you do have to take the first step.
Is This for You? Let’s Find Out.
The Self-Paced Roadmap is designed for people experiencing space or separation who are feeling lost, overwhelmed, or unsure of what to do next.
You’re in the right place if…
If this sounds like you, the Self-Paced Roadmap was made for you.
FAQs: Your Questions, Answered
I get it, right now, getting your partner back feels like the only thing that matters. But here’s the truth: the best way to reconnect isn’t by waiting or chasing, it’s by shifting your focus to yourself.
The Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap isn’t just about your relationship. It’s about helping you regain clarity, confidence, and emotional balance. No matter what happens, you’ll come out of this stronger, more secure, and better prepared for whatever the future holds.
That’s exactly why you need this. Right now, your exhaustion comes from overthinking, second-guessing, and constantly living in uncertainty.
This roadmap isn’t about adding more to your plate, it’s about making things easier. Each day’s lesson is bite-sized, simple, and designed for emotional overwhelm. If you have time to scroll your phone for an hour a day, you have time to shift your focus in a way that actually helps.
Waiting in uncertainty only deepens your pain, anxiety, and powerlessness. Instead of sitting in fear, what if you had a step-by-step plan to follow, one that helps you rebuild your confidence and clarity while giving your partner the space they need?
Whether your partner comes back or not, this roadmap ensures that you are in control of your own healing.
Unlike generic relationship advice, this roadmap is a clear, structured plan designed specifically for people in your situation.
Most advice tells you what to do but doesn’t show you how to do it. This roadmap walks you through the exact steps you need, day by day, so you don’t have to guess.
Yes. Whether you’re still living together or already physically separated, this roadmap helps you find clarity, emotional balance, and a plan forward.
Even if you and your partner are in a space of NO CONTACT there's still a path to healing, either together or on your own.
Great! This roadmap actually prepares you for that moment. Instead of panicking or falling back into old patterns, you’ll have the emotional strength and communication skills to rebuild your connection the right way.
I understand that financial stress is real, but I also know this: staying stuck in emotional turmoil comes at a cost too.
The real cost isn’t just the price of this program, it’s the cost of staying stuck.
Think about it: the distractions at work, the strain in your relationships, the toll on your mental and physical health. How much energy do you lose every day to uncertainty, stress, and waiting for things to change?
This roadmap gives you a clear path forward, at a fraction of the cost of therapy or even a single 1-on-1 session with Staci. And unlike a temporary fix, the skills you’ll gain here will serve you for life.
Invest in yourself now, because the cost of doing nothing is far greater.
The Standard Roadmap gives you all the tools and daily guidance you need to navigate separation on your own.
The Roadmap + Extra Support includes everything in the standard version PLUS:
- Live coaching inside The Better Love Club
- A private, supportive community to ask questions and get advice in real time
- The option to have ongoing support beyond the 30 days
If you want extra guidance and connection, the BLC Add-On is the best option for you.
I hear you, I truly do. It’s understandable to feel that they are to blame, and maybe they are. But in any relationship, which is a co-creation, both people contribute to what is being experienced.
Your opportunity isn’t about casting blame, it’s about understanding your part, learning from it, and making empowered choices about your next best steps forward.
Because while you can’t control them, you can control how you respond, how you advocate for yourself, and how you choose to show up in your relationship.
The roadmap isn’t about blame, it’s about taking back your power.
It’s truly a gift to have people in your life who love and support you. Their advice comes from a place of care, and I know you’re exhausted, it’s tempting to lean on their guidance and just go with what they think is best.
However, please remember this: this is your life. No one else will walk in your shoes or live with the impact of the choices you make during this challenging time. That’s why it’s so important to develop the skills to make decisions that align with you, your values, your needs, and your truth.
Lean on your support system, but don’t hand over the pen when it comes to writing your own story. You deserve to trust yourself.
If you have any other concerns, send us an email at [email protected]. Or schedule a free clarity call with my husband and business partner, Tom here. We’re happy to help!
