5 Keys To Creating The Love You Long For

I want to share the 5 Keys To Creating the Love You Long For that are at the core of everything we teach.

These 5 Keys are the crucial shifts you must make in your belief systems about love before you can truly transform your relationships. When you begin understand these shifts, you’re taking your first big step towards being seen in your relationship as who you truly are.

First: We must stop living in the illusion of perfection.

We all talk about wanting to be loved for who we really are, but are you showing up as you? Or are you pretending to be someone you’re not? Most of us create our relationships based on illusions of pretend and perfection instead of the reality of who we truly are.

But the truth is: It’s not about being perfect, it’s about sharing you, and if you can’t understand you, how do you expect anyone else to?

Second: You need Emotional Weightlifting™, not deeper commitment.

Contrary to what many of my clients think when they begin to work with me, lack of commitment is not the problem in long lasting relationships. What creates the problems it is our inability to navigate the inevitable changes and messes of life will continue to come no matter what.

Flexing your muscles via Emotional Weightlifting™ will allow you to clean up the messes you’re bound to make quickly, efficiently and with less pain.

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Third: There’s a secret weapon…The Lease Option Contract For Love®

We need a better way to make decisions about our relationships. That’s where the Lease Option Contract For Love® comes in. It will help you understand how relationships REALLY work, and the two things you need to keep an eye on to keep them thriving. And, how to navigate your way through the communication pitfalls that typically blow our relationships up, and instead know that they will make you stronger and closer together as a couple.

Fourth: Love for a lifetime isn’t luck, IT’S SKILLS.

I have no idea why we aren’t taught how to be in relationships in the same way we’re taught to cook or drive our cars. But, when we can remove the guilt and shame for not knowing how to navigate our relationships perfectly, we can just focus on learning the skills that will make us better partners. As humans, we’re mess making machines. And the name of this game is not to stop making messes (because that’s never going to happen!) It’s about learning how to clean them up quickly and efficiently so they become speed bumps, not complete derailments.

Finally, I believe you’re the Braveheart.

Please KNOW this, if you are reading this blog, you are what I call the Braveheart of your relationship. You’re the person in the relationship that is courageously looking for answers to your challenges.

This is how relationships work. There is always one person in the relationship that is out in front of the other looking for ways to create more of what they want, and lessen the pain they are experiencing.

So I want to encourage you to NOT wait on your partner. Take action on your own.This is all that is needed to create the transformation your relationship is needing in this moment.

If these 5 keys resonate with you, then you’ve arrived at my website for a reason. You’re the braveheart. 🙂

May extraordinary love tingle your toes,


If you want to learn more about this right now, why not book a call to speak to us? We’ll talk for about an hour, and get you crystal-clear on why you are where you are, how to create the relationship you’re dreaming of, what’s at stake if you don’t act. There’s no charge for this, but book a spot NOW…spaces are limited.


  1. Mark on September 13, 2022 at 5:24 am

    Thanks for your blog, nice to read. Do not stop.

    • Staci Bartley on September 14, 2022 at 8:09 pm

      Well Thank you Mark, so appreciate your encouragement!

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