You’ve played by the rules... be cute, be cool, be chill, don’t care too much, don’t text too fast.
You’ve tried the apps. You’ve followed the formulas.
And what did it get you? Exhausted. Confused. Maybe even a little heart-numb.
You’ve been told you’re “too picky” or “too intense,” but deep down, you know that’s not true. You’re just not willing to settle for shallow connection and another dead-end situationship. You want more. You want real. And you’re starting to wonder if that even exists anymore.
Spoiler: it does. But you won’t find it by outsourcing your love life to a swipe. You’ll find it when you start dating with skill, clarity, and a whole new approach.
This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about freeing you: from the bad advice, the emotional games, and the lie that love is a mystery only luck can solve.
You’re not the problem.You just haven’t had a place to practice love the right way.
Until now.
You don’t want to date forever. You want to get good at love.
You’re tired of second-guessing every move you make.
Is this too much?
Am I coming on too strong?
Is my nervous system freaking out again?
Wait, is it me?
You’re not broken. You’re just done pretending dating like this makes sense.
What you want is simple (but not small):
• Dates that feel like they’re leading somewhere
• Conversations that don’t feel like a job interview
• To be fully seen and deeply wanted
• To stop “proving your worth” and start showing up as you
• Emotional safety and sexual chemistry (yes, both.)
You’re not looking for perfection. You’re looking for practice.
A space where you can unlearn the noise and build the skills to love like a damn grown-up.
Ready to stop doom-scrolling and start practicing love instead?
You’ve spiraled through advice threads and TikTok therapists trying to “fix” your dating life, when all you really want is to feel clear, confident, and chosen.
Ready to stop doom-scrolling and start practicing love instead?
You’ll be the first to know when doors to the Better Love Club dating program swing open, and trust me, you want to be in the room when they do.
The problem isn’t you. It’s the system you’ve been dating in.
And the data backs it up.
And that’s what we’re here for.
💔 Over 50% of online matches never lead to a single conversation.
💤 70% of daters report feeling emotionally exhausted by the apps.
🧠 And ghosting? It’s not just rude. It actually triggers the same part of your brain as physical pain.
Think about that for a second.
This isn’t just about “bad luck in love.”
It’s about an outdated system that encourages emotional detachment, game-playing, and algorithm-driven attraction instead of skill-based connection.
But if love is a skill, that means it can be learned. Practiced. Strengthened.
A soft, strong place to land between ghosting, guessing, and “figuring it out” alone
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Practice spaces to explore intimacy, connection, and boundaries, with zero pressure to “perform”
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Relational tools you can actually use: communication, conflict navigation, and emotional self-awareness
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Bi-weekly live community calls (Thursdays @ 5:30 PM PT) Part group coaching, part real-talk roundtable
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This isn’t a dating app.
It’s not a matchmaking service.
It’s not another algorithm promising “the one.”
This is a relational dojo, a space to build the muscles of real connection, emotional courage, and lasting love.
Together. In real-time.
With other humans who are just as committed to growth as you are.
We created Modern Love because dating culture is broken... and you know it.
But instead of blaming the apps or settling for less, you’re ready to do the inner work. You’re ready to relate with more skill, more heart, and a hell of a lot more honesty.
Introducing...
Modern Love: No Apps Required
A bi-weekly, real-time gathering space for growth-minded singles who are done chasing love… and ready to practice it.
YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH:
How this works:
- Join the waitlist. This is your backstage pass to early access, updates, and early bird pricing.
- When doors open, you’ll be invited to step into a new kind of connection: one where practice comes before partnership.
- Week by week, you’ll build the skills of meaningful love, and discover just how magnetic you are when you’re fully yourself.
You want to build something meaningful, with yourself and (eventually) with someone else.
And you’re starting to realize: love isn’t found. It’s practiced.
Sure, you could keep trying the apps. You could keep hoping the next swipe is “the one” while outsourcing your heart to an algorithm. Or you could keep bingeing relationship advice on TikTok with no real humans to practice it with.
But honestly? That’s exhausting, and you already know where that road leads.
That’s exactly why we created Modern Love: No Apps Required.
A real-time, no-pressure, skills-forward space for singles who are done playing small in love.
✔ Real humans
✔ Real conversations
✔ Real-time relational practice
✔ Every other Thursday @ 5:30 PM PT
Because love isn’t a mystery.
It’s a muscle.
And if you’re ready to strengthen yours, you belong here.
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