Should I stay or go?

When my clients finally come in to see me, they are in panic mode and they ask me:

“Staci, should I stay in my relationship or get the heck out of dodge?”

My honest response:I can’t give you this answer, because it is an answer that is within you, not me.

What I DO know is I can tell you where to go to look for it, and how you can get to it in a way where you won’t have any regrets. And, in the end you’ll feel at peace about your decision.

But that’s not the most important part.

The first thing you need to do, is take the pressure off yourself to make a decision. Pause, take a breath, and give yourself permission to be right where you are.

The secret to finding this answer within you lies in how well you learn do Emotional Weightlifting™.

It’s not about making sure your partner is your perfect match, learning each other’s love languages, or planning a beautiful dream vacation “to fix all your problems.” The only thing that matters is becoming better at navigating the inevitable changes and messes of life that are no doubt going to continue coming our way.

If you take one thing from this email it must be this: you must learn and practice how to do Emotional Weightlifting™ instead of running around in fear and panic.

So let’s check in…

  • Are you ready to let go of the resentment that you’ve built up over the years and begin to move towards passion and fun again?
  • Do you want to know how to develop trust in yourself, and in relationships again, even if you are currently in pain, or have been burned in the past?
  • Are you ready to stop feeling isolated and lonely in your relationship, even though you may have felt this way for months or even years?
  • Do you want to stop the “blame and shame” game with your partner even if your partner won’t stop?

If your answers are YES, then you’re ready to start Emotional Weightlifting™.

And once you start practicing this skill inside your relationship, not only will your connection with your partner improve, you’ll start to feel the peace you’ve been longing for within yourself.

Everybody wins. Sounds wonderful, right?

But, you HAVE to realize, if you keep resisting Emotional Weightlifting™, your relationship is going to continue feeling terrible. If you get this right, and do this work, you’ll get your connection back, the passion will reappear and you’ll be so much happier.

Ready to start working on this in your life but unsure where to start? Don’t worry – we can help. Book a call with us here and let us help you figure it out.

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