You’re lying awake again, heart pounding, wondering: “Is this really how it ends?”
For couples on the brink, those fighting the same fights, avoiding each other in silence, and secretly Googling how to fix a broken marriage at 2:17 a.m.
You’re tired.
You’re scared.
And the worst part?
You don’t know what to do next.
Can we actually come back from all this pain, or are we just prolonging the inevitable?
Why do we keep having the same fight over and over, even when we promise to “do better” the next time?
Is this really what long-term love looks like, constant tension, emotional distance, and walking on eggshells?
Am I asking for too much just to feel loved, heard, and respected in my own relationship?
You’ve asked yourself the same questions on repeat:
You’ve tried everything, and you’re still here, stuck in the same heartbreak loop.
And now, every time you dare to hope things will get better… it ends in another fight, more silence, or that look on your partner’s face that says, “We’re not okay.”
The truth? You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. You’re not alone. You’ve just never been given the roadmap.
Because nobody taught you the actual skills it takes to make love last. But that’s exactly what we do here.
Trust that love isn’t slipping through your fingers, even when things get hard.
Wake up in the morning not dreading another argument, but feeling like a team again.
Know how to talk without spiraling into blame, shutdown, or silence.
Feel that quiet, steady safety when your partner wraps their arms around you again.
You want to…
You don’t just want to survive your relationship, you want to feel alive in it again.
Imagine rebuilding trust, laughing again, and feeling your partner see you... not just pass by you.
You want your relationship to feel like home again, not like something you’re tiptoeing through to avoid another explosion.
And maybe most of all? You want to believe that it’s not too late.
That’s what Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce makes possible.
Turns out, your marriage isn’t broken.
You were just never taught how to do it.
Because we spend more time learning to drive a car than learning to love another person.
Skills. Practice. Guidance.
The difference between couples who thrive and couples who fall apart?
There’s no Relationship 101 in school. No class on how to stay connected when life gets messy. No practice runs for when stress hits, communication breaks down, or your inner child hijacks date night.
And yet, we expect ourselves to “just know” how to make a marriage work. Like love should come with instincts that never fail, even under pressure.
But when triggers flare, childhood wounds reopen, or the distance between you starts to feel unbridgeable… most of us are left guessing. We try harder. We shut down. We lose our footing. All without a single tool in the toolbox.
Let me ask you this:
Would you blame yourself for not knowing how to fly a plane without training?
Then why do we blame ourselves, or each other, or not knowing how to stay in love through life’s hardest moments?
You’re not failing. You’re just untrained.
That’s what this program is for. Tools, skills, and support to help you rebuild the connection you know is possible.
Because love isn’t a lightning strike. It’s a craft.
That's what this program gives you. Not just inspiration, but actual tools to help you rebuild safety, clarity, and connection-starting today.
Because love isn't something you find. It's something you build.
Weekly group coaching, community support, and a seasoned guide (that’s me) walking alongside you every step of the way.
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A fresh understanding of yourself and your partner, what drives your disconnection, and how to create a new dynamic.
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Practical tools to de-escalate conflict, navigate hard conversations, and reconnect even when emotions run high.
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A structured path to rebuild trust, so you can stop walking on eggshells and start feeling safe with each other again.
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I created this for couples on the brink. When your heart still remembers the good, but your day-to-day feels like walking on emotional eggshells.
When you’re caught in the loop of arguing, avoiding, or pretending everything’s okay just to keep the peace. When you’re quietly wondering, “Are we too far gone?” while still hoping the answer is no.
This isn’t just a course. It’s a lifeline.
A place to slow down, get clear, and rebuild from the inside out. You’ll learn how to stabilize the chaos, speak your truth without blowing things up, and finally feel like teammates again, not opponents.
This is your roadmap back to feeling seen, safe, and in sync again…
And the best part? You don’t have to do it alone.
Introducing Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce
You’re not meant to do this alone. And you don’t need one more theory, you need a roadmap that actually works.
YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH:
From Disconnected to Recommitted: One Couple’s Story
The Real Reason You Feel So Off in Your Relationship
This first phase walks you back to who you are, so you stop shape-shifting, start speaking clearly, and feel grounded no matter what your partner is doing.
💡 You’ll learn: boundaries, emotional safety, nervous system anchors, and how to stay in your lane with love.
Why You Keep Having the Same Fight (and How to Stop)
This is your emotional gym. You’ll learn how to hold your big feelings without collapsing, shutting down, or exploding… so repair becomes possible.
💡 You’ll build: emotional strength, self-soothing rituals, and clarity around what’s yours vs. what’s theirs.
How to Say What You Really Mean Without the Aftermath
This is where your voice comes back. You’ll learn to speak up with truth and tenderness, and set boundaries that feel like self-love, not self-protection.
💡 You’ll get: scripts, tools, and my “Communication Sandwich” for hard conversations.
This is where your voice comes back. You’ll learn to speak up with truth and tenderness, and set boundaries that feel like self-love, not self-protection.
💡 You’ll get: scripts, tools, and my “Communication Sandwich” for hard conversations.
How to Rebuild What’s Been Broken
If there’s been betrayal, hurt, or distance, this section guides you in repairing with real integrity. No shame spirals. No false forgiveness.
💡 You’ll explore: the anatomy of apology, how to understand betrayal, and when (or if) to trust again.
Lease Option Contract For Love®
This isn’t about forcing a “happily ever after," it’s about creating a shared agreement for how to move forward, even if it’s wobbly. In this section, you’ll build a personalized framework that supports clarity, calm, and connection, while you figure out what’s next together.
You’ll learn how to co-create agreements that reflect your real needs (not just survival-mode reactions), reduce reactivity, and give you space to rebuild trust and momentum, without rushing the outcome.
💡 Includes: Your full Lease Option Contract For Love® kit + support for navigating decisions with intention, not pressure.
The Forgotten Power of Play When Everything Feels Heavy
This section helps you bring back moments of lightness, connection, and curiosity—even in the middle of the mess.
💡 Learn: the science behind play, how to reconnect without pressure, and ways to feel like teammates again.
Clarify What Comes Next: On Your Terms
This final section gently unpacks intimacy, desire, and safety in long-term love, without pressure or shame.
💡 You’ll explore: what you need, what’s been missing, and how to rebuild intimacy from the inside out.
What’s It Really Costing You Not To Fix This?
Let’s be real: you’re already spending the energy, the hours, the brain cycles.
Scrolling late at night.
Googling “how to fix my marriage.”
Arguing about the same thing... again.
Buying the next book. Listening to podcasts. Binging reels.
Trying so hard not to lose it during another tense dinner.
You’re already investing. But what are you getting back?
White-knuckling it
Self-Help Deep Dive
You could book a therapist. Every week. For months. Maybe separately. Maybe together.
Why that won’t really get you what you want:
Traditional therapy isn’t built for acute relationship crisis. You’ll spend the first few sessions “getting to know each other” while the marriage continues to spiral. And let’s not pretend the $200+/hr isn’t adding stress.
Talk Therapy (The Weekly Hope & Pray Method)
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Talk Therapy
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Self-Help Deep Dive
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You could throw yourself into self-help.
All the books. All the content. All the late-night research.
Why that won’t really get you what you want:
Reading about tools isn’t the same as practicing them. Knowing what to do ≠ knowing how to apply it in the heat of a fight or a shutdown. Information without structure = overwhelm and guilt.
Self-Help Deep Dive (The DIY Research Binge)
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You could white-knuckle it. Push through. Hope it’ll get better on its own. Wait for your partner to change.
Why that won’t really get you what you want:
Hope is not a strategy. Meanwhile, resentment builds. Emotional distance grows. And you risk waking up one day realizing you don’t even like each other anymore. That’s not “sticking it out.” That’s slow erosion.
White-Knuckling It (The “Maybe It’ll Just Get Better” Plan)
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What Are You Trading Your Time + Energy For?
Time you can’t get back. Moments of connection missed or misunderstood. Memories that could’ve been healing, but stayed stuck in pain.
Emotional fatigue. Financial strain. Sleepless nights.
The ache of not knowing what to do, and the shame of thinking you should.
You could keep buying lattes and crossing your fingers your marriage magically repairs itself… or you could finally get the tools no one ever taught you, but you’ve always deserved.
💡 It’s time to give yourself permission to stop guessing and start building love that lasts.
(Value: $997)
Over 8 hours of on-demand video lessons across 26+ modules. Learn everything from emotional regulation to communication, agreements, boundaries, intimacy, and the “Lease Option Contract for Love®.”
The Full Save Your Marriage Curriculum
The Save Your Marriage Blueprint
The full-spectrum roadmap to rebuild safety, clarity, and connection in your marriage, without begging, blaming, or losing yourself.
3 pay plans available.
This isn’t just a course. It’s a lifeline. A step-by-step system to help you feel stronger, steadier, and more confident, no matter what your partner chooses next.
💛 Transformation Plan – $549
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💎 VIP Plan – $1147
Here's what's included:
12 Weeks of Weekly Group Coaching Calls
Get mentorship from Staci in real time, alongside others walking a similar path. Ask your questions, get coached, and feel seen.
✔ Weekly on Wednesdays at 5:30 p.m. PT
✔ Replays available
(Value: $1200)
Private Support Community
You’re not alone. Our off-social group is a confidential space where couples share wins, questions, and heartbreak without judgment.
(Value: $199)
✔ Private student community
✔ 90 days in the Better Love Club (BLC)
✔ Weekly live group coaching sessions
✔ Real-time guidance every Wednesday night at 5:30 p.m. PT
✔ Direct messaging with Staci, Tom, or Brooke
✔ Built-in accountability and momentum
$549
or 3 payments of $207
Whether you’re barely holding it together or just ready for a better way to do this thing called marriage, this program gives you the path and the support to walk it.
Join now and start your journey to clarity, courage, and connection.
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READY TO REBUILD WHAT MATTERS MOST?
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💛 Total Value: $3,800+
Your Investment: $549 or 3 monthly payments
OR
Go all in with the VIP Plan for $1,199
🌀 Choose your path. Reclaim your peace.
$1147
Best Value
or 3 payments of $417
✔ 1-year access to the BLC for ongoing support
✔ 1-on-1 private session with Staci
✔ Exclusive expert resources and tailored feedback
✔ Ideal for deep-divers who want personalized, long-term transformation
Transformation Plan
VIP Plan
Enrollment Is Open, But Space Is Limited
LIMITED CAPACITY • DEEP SUPPORT
This isn’t a giant group program where you’ll get lost in a sea of usernames. The Blueprint is intentionally designed for depth, not volume.
We limit the number of active participants so that you get personalized support, live coaching, and real connection, without waiting weeks for a reply or feeling like just another name on a spreadsheet.
As soon as you enroll, you’ll get access to everything:
✨ The full Blueprint curriculum
✨ Weekly live group calls
✨ Private community
✨ Ongoing mentorship and messaging support
When we reach our capacity, enrollment temporarily closes. So if you’re feeling the nudge? Now’s a good time.
Relationship work has a reputation for being isolating.
You Weren’t Meant to Do This Alone
But in The Save Your Marriage Blueprint, you’ll quickly realize:
💬 You’re not the only ones arguing over the same thing.
💬 You’re not the only ones feeling stuck, scared, or unsure what’s next.
💬 You’re not the only ones who love each other and feel exhausted.
And that changes everything.
Inside our small-group coaching space, you’ll get more than tools... you’ll get a circle of couples walking the same road. Couples who show up each week not just for themselves, but for each other. Couples who cheer for every breakthrough, and normalize the messy middle.
The truth is, many couples from our last cohort chose to stay together because of this community.
They got to witness that healing is possible.
They didn’t feel so broken anymore.
They didn’t feel so alone.
And that kind of support? It’s hard to find, and even harder to forget.
— Nicole D.
“She’s not a therapist. She’s a unicorn.”
My boyfriend and I were ready to call it quits. We were out of hope. From the moment we met Staci, everything changed. She gave us real tools, real perspective, and reminded us why we chose each other. She’s not a therapist, she’s something better. A guide with a teacher’s heart and a rebel soul. Everyone needs a Staci in their life.
“She gave us the tools we didn’t even know we needed.”
My husband and I were the most stubborn couple you’ve ever met. We didn’t need therapy, we needed skills. And that’s what this program gave us. We feel more supported, more loving, and finally know how to really talk to each other. You don’t walk away from Staci. You gain a friend who believes in your relationship as much as you do.
— Dee W.
— Mark V.
“We were on the verge of divorce after 20 years.”
I was hesitant to look at myself. No one wants a spotlight on their flaws. But Staci helped me understand how my behaviors impacted my relationship, and how to change them. We’re still doing the work, but we’re doing it together now. Learning to pause defensiveness, stay open, and communicate honestly has shifted everything. I actually look forward to our sessions. They give me hope.
“Now I speak with compassion, not judgment.”
Staci helped me connect the dots between my body, my emotions, and my voice. I finally know how to express my needs with kindness, without blame or defensiveness. She also guided me through deep grief and helped me let go of toxic patterns. This work has changed every relationship in my life, starting with myself.
— Leea B.
Real People. Real Relationships. Real Repair.
You don’t have to guess if this will help. These are real stories from people who were on the edge, angry, tired, afraid, and who chose to do the work anyway. The result? Skills that shifted their story. Clarity in the chaos. A pathway forward they didn’t think existed.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
These aren’t just stories, they’re proof that real change is possible when you stop guessing and start practicing the emotional skills that actually work. If your relationship feels heavy, uncertain, or stuck… this might be your turning point.
👉 Ready to build something new, together?
Dr. John Gottman, one of the world’s leading relationship researchers, found that couples who maintain a 5-to-1 ratio of positive to negative interactions during conflict are far more likely to stay together. In fact, his research predicts relationship success with over 90% accuracy.*
But what does five positives even look like when you’re swimming in resentment or walking on eggshells?
Here’s the truth: conflict isn’t the problem. We’re human. We mess up. Trying to avoid conflict is like trying to avoid weather.
The couples who make it don’t fight less. They repair better.
This program doesn’t teach you how to love harder. It teaches you how to repair... how to reconnect after a rupture, regulate when you’re triggered, and stay emotionally present when things feel impossible.
Because repair is the positive. And it’s a skill you can absolutely learn.
Let that sink in: it’s not about the spark, the vows, or the history, it’s about whether you’ve got the tools to handle the hard stuff.
Love can’t carry a relationship. Skills can.
*(Gottman & Silver, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, 1999).
I’m Staci Bartley, and since 2013, I’ve helped over 1,500 people navigate the heartbreak, silence, and second-guessing that comes with relationship limbo. I’ve studied with the greats (Esther Perel, Dr. Tammy Nelson), taught emotional tools inside Fortune 500 companies, and co-host a weekly relationship podcast, but my real qualifications come from lived experience, not a clipboard and a couch. I’ve been divorced (twice), raised six kids on my own, and built a deeply connected marriage from the ground up.
I guide this work alongside my husband Tom and our daughter Brooke. We like to say we’re a family business, with all the mess, love, and midnight brainstorms that come with it. The three of us walk the Roadmap with you every step of the way, and no, we don’t do ivory tower advice. We do real-life skills that actually help.
I’m Staci Bartley, and since 2013, I’ve helped over 1,500 people navigate the heartbreak, shutdowns, and “should I stay or go?” spiral that happens in relationship limbo.
I’ve studied with Esther Perel and Dr. Tammy Nelson, taught emotional tools to Fortune 500 companies, and co-host a weekly relationship podcast, but the truth is, I built this Blueprint because I’ve lived it. I know how lonely it feels when your marriage is on the edge, and how powerful it is to finally learn the skills that bring you back together. This is the exact process I use to help my VIP clients rebuild their marriages and now, I’m handing it to you.
And who am I to walk you through this?
You’re not open to showing up, trying new tools, or getting a little uncomfortable in the name of growth.
You’re looking for traditional therapy with labels, diagnostics, and paperwork.
You’re not currently in a committed relationship and just want general info.
You’re looking for a quick fix, a guaranteed outcome, or a way to change your partner without changing yourself.
This probably isn’t for you if…
You’re willing to get uncomfortable in the name of growth (with support every step of the way).
You’re craving tools that are clear, doable, and actually help in the moment.
You’re open to doing your own work, not just pointing fingers or waiting for your partner to change.
You’re still in it. Maybe barely, but something in you wants to try.
You might be a great fit if…
How to know if the Save Your Marriage Blueprint is a fit for you:
Every couple is different. Here’s how to know if this path is meant for yours.
You want to feel proud of how you showed up, no matter how things unfold.
You want to stay stuck in your story instead of learning the skills that could change it.
Still reading? That’s probably a sign.
If you’re ready to stop spinning in circles and start making real progress, this is your next right step.
You’ve got questions? Let’s clear a few things up.
Because hesitation is human, and clarity is powerful.
What if my partner isn’t willing to participate?
Great question. While this program is built for couples, we’ve had many individuals go through it solo and create powerful change. You can shift the dance, even if you’re the only one learning new steps.
I want to do this, but the price feels like a stretch. Do you have a payment plan?
Yep. We’ve got a 3-pay option available for both the Essential and Premier plans. We believe these tools should be accessible, and we’ve structured the investment to reflect that.
I don’t think I have time for this right now.
Here’s the truth: if your relationship is in limbo, it’s already costing you time, energy, and peace of mind. The Blueprint is designed to work around your life with flexible pacing, replays, and simple steps that build on each other. You can do this in small, doable chunks, and you’ll be so glad you did.
What if our issues are really intense or complicated?
Is this therapy?
Do I need to attend the group calls live?
We recommend it if you can, the group energy and real-time feedback are powerful. But we also know life is busy, so every call is recorded and uploaded for you to watch on your own time.
Can I start anytime?
Yes! The Save Your Marriage Blueprint is open enrollment. You don’t have to wait for a new cohort or specific date, when you’re ready, we’re ready.
How long will I have access to the materials?
You’ll have ongoing access to the full Blueprint curriculum and any updates for as long as the program is active. If we ever make changes to the platform, we’ll give you plenty of notice and options.
Sure, you could keep piecing together podcast advice, reading conflicting books, or sitting in silence hoping it all just gets better.
But this? This is a plan. A blueprint. A proven structure for couples who want to find their way back to each other.
You’ll learn exactly what to do when things get hard, how to come back after conflict, and how to rebuild a connection that actually works in real life, not just in theory.
You’ve made it this far down the page for a reason. Don’t shelf the thing that could change everything.
Or you could learn how to actually turn them.
You could keep hoping things turn around.
Choose clarity. Choose courage. Choose the relationship you still believe in.
Total Value: $3,800+
Your Investment: $547 or $1147