#224: The Silent Wedge: How Defensiveness Destroys Emotional Safety

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#224: The Silent Wedge: How Defensiveness Destroys Emotional Safety

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#224: The Silent Wedge: How Defensiveness Destroys Emotional Safety

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“The biggest communication problem is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply.” — Anonymous Ever feel like you’re speaking two different languages with your partner? You say one thing. They hear another. And somehow, the more you try to explain, the worse it gets. This isn’t just miscommunication, it’s the quiet work of defensiveness. […]

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#219: Bridging The Divide: How To Reconnect When It Feels Like You’re Worlds Apart (with Topaz Adizes)

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#219: Bridging The Divide: How To Reconnect When It Feels Like You’re Worlds Apart (with Topaz Adizes)

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#219: Bridging The Divide: How To Reconnect When It Feels Like You’re Worlds Apart (with Topaz Adizes)

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“We don’t see things as they are; we see them as we are.” — Anaïs Nin The world feels more divided than ever. Conversations that once flowed easily now feel tense, loaded with unspoken frustration. Relationships that once felt unshakable now seem fragile, eroded by misunderstandings and the widening gap of differing perspectives. But here’s the […]

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#216: The Valentine’s Day Survival For Anyone In Relationship Limbo

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#216: The Valentine’s Day Survival For Anyone In Relationship Limbo

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#216: The Valentine’s Day Survival For Anyone In Relationship Limbo

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“The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.” – Mother Teresa Valentine’s Day is everywhere, the flowers, the chocolates, the heart-shaped everything. For couples in love, it’s a celebration. For you? It might feel like a cruel reminder of what’s missing. If your relationship is in limbo, this […]

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