Your relationship isn't broken. You just haven't been taught the skills to fix it.
Relationship mentoring in Auburn, CA • In-Person & Virtual
You don't need someone to tell you your relationship is struggling. You need someone who can show you why, and hand you the exact skills to turn it around. That's what this session does.
Serving Auburn • Rocklin • Roseville • Granite Bay • Loomis • Lincoln • Newcastle • Penryn • Meadow Vista • Grass Valley • Nevada City • Colfax • Applegate • Foresthill • Sacramento
Maybe it's the same argument that circles back every few weeks. Maybe it's the silence that's grown louder than anything you say to each other. Maybe you're Googling "relationship help" at midnight because you don't know what else to do.
You're not here because your relationship is hopeless. You're here because you care enough to look for answers.
The problem isn't effort, you've been trying. The problem is that nobody ever taught you the emotional skills that make relationships actually work. Not in school. Not from your parents. Not from the self-help books on your nightstand.
That's exactly what these sessions teach you.
You already know something has to change.
Ready? Pick a time that works for you...
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We’re so glad you’re continuing this work. To schedule your next session, just email us at love@stacibartley.com or text Tom directly. We’ve got you.
Does this sound like you?
The same argument, on repeat
Different words, same fight. You've talked about it a hundred times and nothing sticks. You need new tools, not another conversation.
Growing apart in slow motion
You're in the same house but it feels like different worlds. The connection that used to come easily now takes everything you have.
Your partner won't go to counseling
They've shut down the idea. But you still want to do something, and the truth is, one person changing the dynamic can shift everything.
You're wondiering if it's time to leave
But walking away without trying everything feels wrong. You want to know you gave it a real shot before making that call.
— mike l.
"Staci is amazing. Her wealth of knowledge about relationships and her ability to teach and guide us are outstanding."
— Dee W.
"Staci’s program gave my husband and I the tools to become a loving, communicative couple."
— Leea B.
"Staci taught me how to communicate my needs with compassion and clarity, without fear of judgment."
— Marc B.
"Through The 30-Day Roadmap, I discovered strength and confidence I never knew I had."
— Janet r.
I am beyond grateful to say that my marriage has been saved, and my relationship with my husband has been transformed because of this program. I have cancelled and ripped up my divorce papers and even received a refund from my lawyer! Turns out my husband is NOT the narcissist my counselor thought he was, and now our relationship is thriving and growing again.
My Marriage Was Saved—Even After I Started Divorce Proceedings!
We know what this feels like.
I was reluctant to get involved in Staci’s program because my husband and I had tried everything. After a marriage counselor told me my husband was a narcissist and there was no hope, I found a lawyer and began divorce proceedings. Even though I loved my husband deeply, I still wanted our marriage to work out.
People said it was too late.
These couples proved them wrong...
"We were ready to give up but didn’t want to quit without trying."
— Nicole D.
Meet at Staci's Auburn, CA location, or connect from home on video. Same depth, same results, whatever works for your schedule.
Your Choice: In-person or virtual
You'll leave with specific skills you can apply immediately. Not homework. Not a reading list. A tool that works in the heat of a real moment.
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Staci helps you see the pattern underneath the conflict — the thing that's really driving the disconnection, not just the surface-level fights.
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What happens in your 60 minutes?
I’m Staci Bartley, and since 2013, I’ve helped over 1,500 people navigate the heartbreak, silence, and second-guessing that comes with relationship limbo. I’ve studied with the greats (Esther Perel, Dr. Tammy Nelson), taught emotional tools inside Fortune 500 companies, and co-host a weekly relationship podcast, but my real qualifications come from lived experience, not a clipboard and a couch. I’ve been divorced (twice), raised six kids on my own, and built a deeply connected marriage from the ground up.
I guide this work alongside my husband Tom and our daughter Brooke. We like to say we’re a family business, with all the mess, love, and midnight brainstorms that come with it. The three of us walk the Roadmap with you every step of the way, and no, we don’t do ivory tower advice. We do real-life skills that actually help.
Staci Bartley has spent over a decade helping people find their way back to each other. Since 2013, she's worked with more than 1,500 individuals and couples navigating the hardest moments a relationship can throw at you.
She's trained under Esther Perel and Dr. Tammy Nelson, brought emotional skill-building into Fortune 500 companies, and co-hosts a weekly relationship podcast. But what makes her different is that she's been through it herself... divorce, single parenting six kids, and building a deeply connected marriage from scratch with her husband Tom.
She works alongside Tom and their daughter Brooke. It's a family operation built on real experience.
Based in Auburn, CA • Working with people across Placer County and the greater Sacramento area since 2013.
Meet the person in your corner.
Relationship coaching that's actually in your backyard.
No more scrolling through generic online advice. Staci is right here in Auburn, CA — and she also works with clients virtually across the country.
Auburn | Rocklin | Roseville | Granite Bay | Loomis | Lincoln | Newcastle | Penryn | Meadow Vista | Grass Valley | Nevada City | Colfax | Applegate | Foresthill | Sacramento
