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Are you doing this in your relationship
Let me give you a quick tip today that will instantly help you to begin to transform your relationship. This is THE most valuable piece of information I’ve discovered in all my years of studying relationships, so listen up: Stop living in the illusion of perfection. Here’s what I mean: We all talk about wanting…
Read MoreBut How Do I Do It?
By now, you’ve seen me talk a lot about how it is important that you stop living in the illusion of perfection. At first, you probably wondered whether that was even possible. Now you’re starting to understand… In my work with my clients, ALL of my students have realized that this step is the most…
Read MoreShould I stay or go?
When my clients finally come in to see me, they are in panic mode and they ask me: “Staci, should I stay in my relationship or get the heck out of dodge?” My honest response:I can’t give you this answer, because it is an answer that is within you, not me. What I DO know…
Read More5 Ways Working With Me Is Different
We are all bombarded with advice, books, and relationship tips every day. Especially when we’re struggling. It seems to be all we see. It can be hard to know which book to read, which person to listen to, or which expert to work with. How do you wade through all the information coming your way…
Read MoreFrustrated that it's not easier?
Have you been wondering why when you’re reading all the books, watching workshops, and trying new strategies that fixing your relationship isn’t…easier? I think there is a pretty common misconception about love and relationships that if you’re working really hard and if you just love your partner that everything in your relationship should be perfect…
Read MoreThe Secret to Relationship Health
Today, we’re going to talk about how to reignite the excitement in your relationship. It’s probably been a while since you felt it. Remember how you felt when you and your partner first came together? You moved mountains to spend time with one another, you couldn’t wait to talk to each other on the phone…just…
Read MoreHow are you showing up?
I saw this quote today and felt the need to share it with you… “If you don’t take ACTION and make adjustments necessary mentally, physically, and emotionally; your 2020 will look exactly the same as your 2019.” – Lewis Howes If you are wanting to make this new year and the beginning of this new decade…
Read MoreThis IS hard.
Let me be 100% honest with you. Learning the tools and skills necessary to fix your relationship is HARD. Any relationship coach or marriage counselor who tells you working with them will make it easy is lying to you. Here’s something a client posted in the comments section of one of my Facebook posts. This…
Read MoreYou won't have to worry…
Just got off a call with a potential client. She had invested A LOT of money in counseling sessions to fix her relationship issues, and kept having the same problems. She’d find herself in the middle of unpacking some serious emotions and then her session would end… or she’d get into an argument with her husband…
Read MoreStop doing this…
I know you’ve been frantically searching for information, solutions, and “quick fix” relationship tips. And, all that searching got you here,which I’m so grateful for. But, now I must take a moment to grab you (lovingly) by the shoulders and tell you the truth: You don’t need more information. You need TRANSFORMATION. You don’t need to read…
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