278: How to Stop a Fight Before It Escalates: The First 60 Seconds

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278: How to Stop a Fight Before It Escalates: The First 60 Seconds

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278: How to Stop a Fight Before It Escalates: The First 60 Seconds

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It starts over nothing. The dishwasher, maybe. A tone of voice. A look. And in about the time it takes to read this sentence, it’s not about the dishwasher anymore. Your heart is pounding, their voice is rising, and both of you are saying things that have nothing to do with tonight and everything to […]

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274: When Your Partner Won’t Change: What to Do Next

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274: When Your Partner Won’t Change: What to Do Next

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274: When Your Partner Won’t Change: What to Do Next

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There’s a sentence a lot of us think but never say out loud. Not to a friend, not to family, not even to ourselves alone in the car. We think it, then push it away and go back to being hopeful and patient. “It’s going to be fine. It’s going to be okay.” The sentence […]

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#271: Feeling Like Roommates? How to Rebuild Emotional Safety in Your Relationship

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#271: Feeling Like Roommates? How to Rebuild Emotional Safety in Your Relationship

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There’s a particular kind of loneliness that happens inside a relationship, not outside of it. You still share a home, a bed, a life. But somewhere along the way, you stopped really talking. The logistics still happen. Who’s picking up the kids, what’s for dinner, did the bill get paid. The real things don’t. The […]

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