#287: Why You Both Think the Other Person Is the Problem in Your Relationship

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#287: Why You Both Think the Other Person Is the Problem in Your Relationship

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#287: Why You Both Think the Other Person Is the Problem in Your Relationship

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Have you ever looked at your partner and thought, “If they would just stop doing THAT, we’d be fine”? Maybe you feel like you’re carrying the whole relationship. Maybe you feel like you’re walking on eggshells in your own house. Maybe you keep having the same fight over and over, and you can explain exactly […]

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#283: Why We Wait Too Long to Get Help With Our Marriage

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#283: Why We Wait Too Long to Get Help With Our Marriage

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Your car makes a strange noise and it’s at the mechanic by Friday. Your knee aches for a month and you find somebody who knows knees. Your business flattens out and you hire a person who knows more about it than you do, and then you tell your friends about it over dinner, a little […]

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#281: How Defensiveness Breaks a Relationship Down, Piece by Piece

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#281: How Defensiveness Breaks a Relationship Down, Piece by Piece

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#281: How Defensiveness Breaks a Relationship Down, Piece by Piece

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Have you ever cut somebody off in traffic? Not on purpose. You were looking at your phone for a second. The coffee lid came off. You were thinking about the bills, the kids you have to pick up, the fight you had before you walked out the door. You didn’t see them. And then they […]

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