277: Is This Just a Rough Patch, or Is Our Relationship Dying?

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277: Is This Just a Rough Patch, or Is Our Relationship Dying?

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277: Is This Just a Rough Patch, or Is Our Relationship Dying?

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Is This Just a Rough Patch, or Is Our Relationship Dying? How to Tell the Difference Somewhere tonight, there’s a couple lying in bed back to back, both wide awake, unbeknownst to the other. Neither one is saying anything, but they’re both asking the same question: is this just a rough patch, or is our […]

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#272: Are You an Asker or an Assumer?

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#272: Are You an Asker or an Assumer?

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How to Ask for What You Need in Your Relationship (Without the Dread) Most of us think we’re asking our partner for what we need. We’re not. We’re hinting. Complaining. Going quiet and hoping they’ll catch the signal. And when they don’t, we add another tally to the running list of reasons we feel alone […]

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#270: Why Love Isn’t Enough to Save Your Marriage (And What Actually Is)

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#270: Why Love Isn’t Enough to Save Your Marriage (And What Actually Is)

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You love them. And still, you’re exhausted. The same argument keeps circling back around. The same silence settles into the room after the fight. The same emotional distance keeps growing between you, even though somewhere underneath all of it, you still care deeply about each other. That’s the part that can make you feel like […]

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