#264: Have You Fallen Out of Love? Here’s What’s Actually Happening

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#264: Have You Fallen Out of Love? Here’s What’s Actually Happening

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#264: Have You Fallen Out of Love? Here’s What’s Actually Happening

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Have You Fallen Out of Love? Maybe Not. Have you ever caught yourself thinking: I love you… but I don’t feel close to you anymore. That thought can scare the hell out of us. Because once it shows up, a whole avalanche tends to follow right behind it. Maybe we’ve fallen out of love. Maybe […]

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#260: Avoidant Attachment Style: Why Your Partner Shuts Down and How to Respond ( Part 2)

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#260: Avoidant Attachment Style: Why Your Partner Shuts Down and How to Respond ( Part 2)

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#260: Avoidant Attachment Style: Why Your Partner Shuts Down and How to Respond ( Part 2)

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If you love someone with avoidant attachment, or if you carry it yourself, this reframe changes everything about what listening actually means. If you’ve ever been in a relationship shaped by avoidant and anxious attachment styles, you know the painful loop it creates. The avoidant partner goes quiet. Pulls back. Shuts down when things get […]

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#258: In Conversation With a Couple: How Relationship Skills Show Up in Real Life

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#258: In Conversation With a Couple: How Relationship Skills Show Up in Real Life

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#258: In Conversation With a Couple: How Relationship Skills Show Up in Real Life

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Sometimes the most unexpected humans end up handing you the most unexpected gift. A few years ago, I met a couple named Marnie and Patrick. They’re passionate. Creative. The kind of people who don’t just “do life” together… they build things together. Experiences. Beauty. A whole atmosphere. They also reached a point where love wasn’t […]

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